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Let the sun shine in!
Posted on Oct 2nd, 2006
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Michael
Michael
Yesterday afternoon I met fellow Zaadzster, Frank, at Genuine Joe's to do some work on myself. I had witnessed Frank do a powerful process working with the subconscious last Wednesday at our local Zaangha, and wanted to experience it for myself.
I had not intended to work on my romantic relationships with women prior to our meeting, but that's what came up. Frank and I simply had a conversation and about 15 minutes later, POW!, the process was complete and I'd had a very big breakthrough... a new sense of lightness and freedom opened up for me.
He mentioned that he heard a difference in my laugh during/after the process. He said he actually heard me giggle, which for the record, I thoroughly deny. I have a very manly laugh, and besides... real men don't giggle! ;)
Frank, you're amazing, man! Last night my sisters commented on the shift they saw in me. And a day later, it's still there.
Frank's a big man with a huge heart and a knack for delivering some powerful work with grace and ease. If you ever get the chance, while in Austin, look him up!
I had not intended to work on my romantic relationships with women prior to our meeting, but that's what came up. Frank and I simply had a conversation and about 15 minutes later, POW!, the process was complete and I'd had a very big breakthrough... a new sense of lightness and freedom opened up for me.
He mentioned that he heard a difference in my laugh during/after the process. He said he actually heard me giggle, which for the record, I thoroughly deny. I have a very manly laugh, and besides... real men don't giggle! ;)
Frank, you're amazing, man! Last night my sisters commented on the shift they saw in me. And a day later, it's still there.
Frank's a big man with a huge heart and a knack for delivering some powerful work with grace and ease. If you ever get the chance, while in Austin, look him up!
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Michael,
That is wonderful! I am glad that you had this amazing breakthrough.
Interesting tho, this caught my eye… ” work on my romantic relationships with women”,
in the plural sense..most women I know appreciate being the only one!
What do you think??
Monica
heya Monica. So true, most do. Well, there isn't a The One in my life and I wasn't focussed on a specific relationship, only my relationship to romantic relationships, if you will! Or, in other words, how I relate to all such relationships–or to women.
Some doors flew open! Whaaaam!!! ;)
All fture romantic relationships will be affected.
In general, I think we use “romantic” in a far too limited sense. There are many women in my life who I adore, respect, cherish, appreciate, love and admire. We have intimate conversations, flirt, etc., and they are all very much romantic relationships… and I'm not talking about “having relations.” ;)
I really don't see why we place so many social limitations on physical touch, intimacy, eye contact, flirting, etc. And withholding that seems to be largely a conditioned reaction to fear, as it seems quite natural to simply express such love and affection. hmmm…
Real men don't giggle?!
You made me laugh… you are too funny…
So why isn't there a special woman??? Moving too fast for anyone to catch ya??? Lots of motion with you-I am thinking any woman who wants to catch up with you better have good running shoes…
I've really been enjoying the postings and seeing more of the Mikey aspect of you…
Much llove, from an old married lioness
Katrina
“I really don't see why we place so many social limitations on physical touch, intimacy, eye contact, flirting, etc. And withholding that seems to be largely a conditioned reaction to fear, as it seems quite natural to simply express such love and affection. hmmm…”
True. Fear, but also due to culture. Being a woman, as I am .. I have met very few American men who actually have been conscious enough to have innocent “romantic” relationships and respect boundaries as well.
I have met many men who love, respect, and adore women as you do , and I praise that! My boyfriend is one of them and actually it caused some friction in our relationship initially.. However we compromised and we respect and acknowledge each others boundaries. We both are able to fully express ourselves in our relationship without feeling restricted or straying too far away from our comfort zone.
So basically your philosophy of relationships with women sounds very familiar to me and I just wanted to offer my perspective…..being that this is a public blog and all!!
Monica